Friday, May 1, 2009

When a boy don't listen to what woman says....

My friend once told me that, there are some guys, that when you met them, and feels that there is no connection between you and him, you should run the opposite way. I did otherwise. I tried it first. When I felt that there is no connection between the two of us, then I run the opposite way.

What happen was, I met this younger man ( a reason for me to believe not to get involve with immature, younger man) perhaps 2 months ago. We was introduced by my aunt. (Well basically, he's like my aunt's younger brother) I thought that he would be different. So, I give it a try.

What should I do, if a guy, threaten you on un-logic backgrounds, insulted you in a way, threatened to commit physical abuse and then ask for forgiveness and say that I'm the one, that he couldn't live without me and love me unconditionally... and then repeat again insulting and threatening???

CHILDISH AND IMMATURE!!! For not respecting my space, my achievement and my sweats to accomplish to where I am now!!! These kind of guy makes other guys look ridiculous and desperate. I'm not that desperate to quit everything that I've accomplished for and devote my whole life to this person?? Talking about status??? I would not be in the relationship if I'm so concern about status.

To this guy, please change your attitude. You know that no woman could stand your anger and abusive behavior. I'm not your mother that could tell you what to do and what not to do all through your life. I've been moving in and out of love relationship and I've learn so much out of it. I live longer in the world than you do and know things that you might not see. Think far ahead in the future. Your the eldest, show some dignity towards your siblings and your family. If you can't respect me as your once-upon-a-time-girlfriend, respect me as your elder sister, coz for God's sake, I am older than you!!!

Think farther ahead. Don't take things easily to deal things in life. Giving you more chances after all the chances I gave to you, I don't think so. After the insults, the threaten of physical abuse, you know I'm seriously against men hitting woman. Your the last person on earth that I rather be with. And even if your the last man standing, I would rather die than ever wanting to be with you.

Be realistic. Take this as your lesson in life. Improve yourself. Show that you can change. Maybe you deserve someone better than this person that you've insulted!! Good bye!!!